Sunday, December 18, 2016

Sunday Chit Chat



Sometimes I look at mirror and ask myself:
Am I showing everything that I am or am I not showing it at all? Personality, emotions, thoughts?

I guess that there are some people to whom you show everything and there are the ones from who you hide everything. Either way I don't think that none of this is good for us. I think that we should try to make some balance.
Why I think like this?

Well, it's simple. If you expose yourself to someone too much, you will end up losing yourself. If you don't expose at all, you will not allow them to know you and then to love you. I'm not talking here just about your partner, but also about your family, friends, etc.

Show others enough that they can know you well and love you but save something for yourself too.

I don't think that there is a person to whom I showed everything that I am and that is something that has always helped me to put myself back together. That is something that saved me million times!

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Ponekad se zagledam u ogledalo i upitam se:
Da li pokazujem svetu sve ono što zapravo jesam ili ne pokazujem ništa? Ličnost, emocije, razmišljanja?

Pretpostavljam da postoje neki ljudi kojima otkrivate sve ono što jeste i s druge strane postoje oni od kojih sve to krijete.  Iskreno smatram da ni jedno ni drugo nije dobro za nas. Smatram da bi trebalo da napravimo neki balans kada je ta tema u pitanju.
Zašto tako mislim?
Jednostavno je. Ako se previše pokažeš nekome, na kraju ćeš izgubiti sebe. Ako ne pokažeš ništa, ne dozvoljavaš da te neko dobro upozna pa posle i zavoli. Ovde ne govorim samo o partnerima, već i o porodici, prijateljima, itd.

Pokaži se drugima toliko da mogu da te upoznaju i zavole ali ipak sačuvaj nešto i za sebe.

Sumnjam da postoji osoba kojoj sam pokazala sve što jesam i to je nešto što mi je pomoglo da se saberem i nastavim dalje sa životom šta god da mi se desilo.  To je nešto što me je spasilo milion puta!

                          
                                           Love, 
                                                  Andrea 
                                                          

12 comments:

  1. Tako e.Razmisljas potpuno realno,taj dio koji ne pokazujemo i po meni je ono sto zaista jesmo i slazem se da uvijek mora ostati sakriven.Takode,moramo se i otvorit donekle jer ipak zelimo da zivimo sa drugima i da se osjecamo dobro.Bravo!��❤��

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  2. Tako je, isto tako mislim! Drago mi je da ti se svidja! Pozdrav :**

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  3. Ja sam išla u oba ekstrema, sad umem da balansiram a i da procenim kome i šta otkrivam. :)

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  4. Ima ljudi kojima vredi otkriti sebe, ali retki su sto i nije tako lose :)

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    1. Istina! Oni su retki ali posebni i njih treba sačuvati u životu! :))

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  5. Slažem se sa tobom, ali zašto bi nekome i otkrivao svaki delić svoje ličnosti, neka nešto ostane i misterija 😉

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    1. Zanimljivije je uz malo misterije, a ne kad je sve na tacni ☺️😉

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  6. You are right! Balance is everything, otherwise we can get hurt - I know I've been a lot of times, when I offer myself out there, without holding anything back. <3

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    1. I know! I've been a lot of times too, but I finally learned what to reveal and what to keep for myself! :)

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  7. I am struggling in sharing enough about myself though? I am a straight forward person & my friends around always said I am wearing my emotion on my face....still in a learning journey definitely. Cheers, SiennyLovesDrawing

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  8. Predivan post draga moja! Dobro je kad osoba za sebe shvati sta je za nju dobro a sta ne,koliko sebe pokazati nekome a sta ostaviti kao tajnovito,nesto svoje :)

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